I’m fiercely dedicated to helping Queer+ humans confidently live as their most authentic selves.
Hi I’m Alex,
I used to be the most insecure person you ever met.
Everything I did felt like an attempt to live up to other people’s standards.
Like many people, I thought “It’s probably because of my body. If I just get really fit, then I will feel confident.”
By 2017 I had a perfect 6-pack, worked a salaried job in tech, ran my own business, was THE socialite of my town and felt endlessly empty.
In October that year, I hit rock bottom in my depression and I attempted suicide.
The problem wasn’t my body.
It wasn’t fixable through any amount of hustle.
And it wasn’t because I was gay.
My entire life I had believed
I am not enough.
Growing up in a conservative legalistic religious environment taught me that who I am as a gay, queer, genderfluid human is not lovable.
Until that turning point, I had been drowning myself in school, in work, in fitness, ANYTHING to appear worthy of love.
And ultimately, worthy of self-love.
Through coaching, therapy, reading, watching speakers, and listening to countless podcasts, I finally learned how to appreciate my authentic self.
And I want you to have the same thing. But with far less time and effort.
That’s why I do what I do.
And if you’re looking for a coach who can also bring you new business perspectives and strategy, I’m your unicorn!
I have experience working in all the following industries:
Accounting
Dancing/Stripping
Event Production
Fitness and Nutrition
Nonprofit
Photography
Podcasting
Publishing
Service Industry
Sex Work
Technology (I’m secretly a total tech nerd)
TV & Video
At one point I even hired and managed a team of 7 for one of my old businesses.
I’ve done a lot!
And now I’m excited to bring you my personal life experiences, diverse business experiences, and professional training as an internationally certified coach.