I’m fiercely dedicated to helping Queer+ humans confidently live as their most authentic selves.

Hi I’m Alex,

I used to be the most insecure person you ever met.

Everything I did felt like an attempt to live up to other people’s standards.

Like many people, I thought “It’s probably because of my body. If I just get really fit, then I will feel confident.”

By 2017 I had a perfect 6-pack, worked a salaried job in tech, ran my own business, was THE socialite of my town and felt endlessly empty.

In October that year, I hit rock bottom in my depression and I attempted suicide.

The problem wasn’t my body.

It wasn’t fixable through any amount of hustle.

And it wasn’t because I was gay.

My entire life I had believed

I am not enough.

Growing up in a conservative legalistic religious environment taught me that who I am as a gay, queer, genderfluid human is not lovable.

Until that turning point, I had been drowning myself in school, in work, in fitness, ANYTHING to appear worthy of love.

And ultimately, worthy of self-love.

Through coaching, therapy, reading, watching speakers, and listening to countless podcasts, I finally learned how to appreciate my authentic self.

And I want you to have the same thing. But with far less time and effort.

That’s why I do what I do.

And if you’re looking for a coach who can also bring you new business perspectives and strategy, I’m your unicorn!

I have experience working in all the following industries:

  • Accounting

  • Dancing/Stripping

  • Event Production

  • Fitness and Nutrition

  • Nonprofit

  • Photography

  • Podcasting

  • Publishing

  • Service Industry

  • Sex Work

  • Technology (I’m secretly a total tech nerd)

  • TV & Video

At one point I even hired and managed a team of 7 for one of my old businesses.

I’ve done a lot!

And now I’m excited to bring you my personal life experiences, diverse business experiences, and professional training as an internationally certified coach.